In a previous Q&A on being triggered by watching the news you said to differentiate between new grief from the news and our own stored grief being released. I can’t tell when grief is from current, minor, sad things in my life or old unprocessed grief. I have tears, my chest and belly squeezes till I run out of air. I gasp and this repeats until it stops and then I’m numb. How can I tell if I’m just blowing up at minor things and never touching the old stuff?

In a previous Q&A on being triggered by watching the news you said to differentiate between new grief from the news and our own stored grief being released. I can’t tell when grief is from current, minor, sad things in my life or old unprocessed grief. I have tears, my chest and belly squeezes till I run out of air. I gasp and this repeats until it stops and then I’m numb. How can I tell if I’m just blowing up at minor things and never touching the old stuff?oddjar2024-08-29T17:45:22-07:00

I’ve always struggled promptly replying to messages from friends and family. I find it a struggle to authentically express myself so everything feels really forced and empty, like there’s doubt laced into every word I type. This has become more visceral since beginning this course, and I feel anxiety while trying to reply or knowing I have messages to respond to. What is happening here, is this something that will change with more regulation?

I’ve always struggled promptly replying to messages from friends and family. I find it a struggle to authentically express myself so everything feels really forced and empty, like there’s doubt laced into every word I type. This has become more visceral since beginning this course, and I feel anxiety while trying to reply or knowing I have messages to respond to. What is happening here, is this something that will change with more regulation?oddjar2024-08-29T17:45:22-07:00

During SBSM I’m noticing bracing patterns specifically in my gut, which I consciously then release. I take dual prokinetics for my bowel to work, and I wondered if this issue could be a result of these bracing patterns. How does bracing relate to dysregulation? Can you have one without the other? A few questions here. Can the issue be the result of bracing patterns? Meaning, digestion problems, can they result from bracing patterns?

During SBSM I’m noticing bracing patterns specifically in my gut, which I consciously then release. I take dual prokinetics for my bowel to work, and I wondered if this issue could be a result of these bracing patterns. How does bracing relate to dysregulation? Can you have one without the other? A few questions here. Can the issue be the result of bracing patterns? Meaning, digestion problems, can they result from bracing patterns?oddjar2024-08-29T17:45:22-07:00

I used to think I was lazy or not smart when trying to read anything information, science, technical, et cetera. Even in subjects I’m passionate about, I cannot concentrate. I reread lines. I feel like I have to highlight everything in order to remember it, to understand it. Bookshelves filled with books that I only read a few pages, many of which have been recommended in SBSM, and I am truly interested in. I realize now that reading these things is very activating to me.” Aha. “Suggestions on how to heal this.

I used to think I was lazy or not smart when trying to read anything information, science, technical, et cetera. Even in subjects I’m passionate about, I cannot concentrate. I reread lines. I feel like I have to highlight everything in order to remember it, to understand it. Bookshelves filled with books that I only read a few pages, many of which have been recommended in SBSM, and I am truly interested in. I realize now that reading these things is very activating to me.” Aha. “Suggestions on how to heal this.oddjar2024-08-29T17:45:22-07:00

I had a spontaneous kneecap luxation after coming out of deep freeze and starting healthy aggression and annihilation work. The luxation happened during a normal, calm movement. What relation could there be between a spontaneous luxation of my kneecap and stored survival energy in my knee? I would expect my body to work more naturally and aligned, because of this work. Do you have any tips for recovery and prevention?

I had a spontaneous kneecap luxation after coming out of deep freeze and starting healthy aggression and annihilation work. The luxation happened during a normal, calm movement. What relation could there be between a spontaneous luxation of my kneecap and stored survival energy in my knee? I would expect my body to work more naturally and aligned, because of this work. Do you have any tips for recovery and prevention?oddjar2024-08-29T17:45:22-07:00

oddjar2024-08-29T17:35:57-07:00

How do I go about everyday life when I feel a lot of healthy aggression?

How do I go about everyday life when I feel a lot of healthy aggression?oddjar2024-08-29T17:35:57-07:00

When is the right time to do the annihilation work?

When is the right time to do the annihilation work?oddjar2024-08-29T17:35:57-07:00

I’m confused about how I’m supposed to use all the exercises that I’ve learned so far.

I’m confused about how I’m supposed to use all the exercises that I’ve learned so far.oddjar2024-08-29T17:35:57-07:00

What to do to feel more sensations, particularly those from anger and freeze?

What to do to feel more sensations, particularly those from anger and freeze?oddjar2024-08-29T17:35:57-07:00